The feeling is such a powerful gift to every living one on this earth (or maybe on any living planet )through which everyone gets pleasure in their life. You can imagine what would happen if we don’t have any feeling. Obviously, life becomes tasteless or sometimes miserable as well.
Just think once, how is your marriage life without any feeling/love with your partner? How is your college life if you don’t have feelings/attachment with any of your friends? And how is your family life when everyone indulges in their own personal life but never has feelings/time for any family member? Happiness, joy is not a product of any person, material or activity that we have. These are the product of positive feelings that we have with that person or material or activity.
But one second, sometimes these same feelings create pain in our life. Now imagine, what happens if your love is doing fraud with you? Or let me ask you, how do you feel if your best friend is making fun of you in your absence? And suppose, your family suddenly met with some accident, how you react in such situation? So, which one was creating pleasure, fun in our life, now it becomes a pain. Now the bigger question coming here that “Is having a feeling is joyful or painful?”
“Answers of all questions are within you itself, you just need to figure out.”
So the answer is, it depends on you that how you use it, manage it and handle it. Imagine these feelings are like nuclear power which can destroy your whole world if you can’t control or manage it but at the same time it will make your world without any power shortage if you can manage and direct it as per your will.
So, how to manage our feelings so that it gives me pleasure in any situation? how to use any feeling to make us more successful and powerful at our place? I will cover all these questions in my next blog. So stay tune….
